“We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.” -Jawaharial Nehru
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Monday, November 14, 2011

A Day At Dudley's

         It was Veteran's Day, a holiday celebrating those who came home from war. Celebrating our nation’s heroes. Veteran’s Day has always reminded me of my great grandfather, who fought in WWII and was in Hawaii during pearl harbor, and of my granddad, who was shipped off to Vietnam. 
         For the holiday, every year, the Florida State Parks are have free admission. Its a great deal for families, because there is no school on Veteran’s day in Florida, and what better way to celebrate our Vets than getting the whole family together are getting some fresh air?
         Normally John and I go out to lunch and then we would go to St. Augustine, but this year we decided to do something different.
         The morning air was crisp and smelled of freshly cut grass when I dragged everyone out of bed. Hunter and Amy looked at me sleepily and John was still groggy (needless to say he was cranky to be woken up before noon) when we pulled out of the driveway.  I was determined to get an early start on the day.
         We were heading to Dudley Farms, a nearby historical state park. Originally owned by Erastus Dudley the farm was built in 1844. The 640 acres of land were farmed and lived on by the Dudley family until 1991 when the last remaining family member died and donated the land to the North Guilford Volunteer Fire Company. The fire company decided to restore and preserve Dudley Farms. In 2002  it was added to the U.S. National Register of Historic Places, and it has been an authentic working farm ever since. 

Dudley Farms

         It was just a quick fifteen minute drive from the house to the farm, and by the time we arrived everyone was wide awake. Something about the chill seemed to make the world brighter. The sunlight glistened off of the dewy grass under our feet as we stepped out of the car. 
         The homestead consists of 21 historical buildings and 325 acres. They have farm animals such as chicken, free roaming turkey, cattle, sheep,and horses. The farm has sugar cane, corn, banana trees, and they even have a small herb garden.
         The kids were especially interested in looking at the animals, and one employee gave us some feed to give to the chickens and hens. Amy went especially crazy for the horses, who were close enough to pet. They were mild mannered and she was wide eyed when they let her touch their manes.

Amy’s “Pony”

         Personally I enjoyed the family garden, which the guide told me is seasonal. The Dudley’s grew onions, carrots, and sweet potatoes. They lived off of the land and their own work. The Dudley’s had twelve children!  (I suppose that means they had plenty of farm hands.) I love the way the freshly turned soil smelled. We had the seasons first frost the day after, but on Veterans day the plants were still bright green. I stopped and talked to a woman who was in period clothing (all of the park’s staff are) and she told me all about the process of making syrup out of the sugar cane. We chatted until John got impatient and dragged me away. He wanted to watch the demonstrations and Hunter was anxious to play with a few old time toys.

Bumblebees in the garden

         There are a few trails available but we decided to eat at the small picnic table area that is available to the park’s guests. The day before I had packed up some lemonade, the makings of hot-dogs, and a bag of chips so we could eat at the farm. The farm’s picnic area is nice, they have a few grills available, and John grilled the hot-dogs to a well cooked perfection... very well cooked in fact.
As the day was nearing it’s end we wandered into farmhouse. When you look into the “parlor” room you cant help but be taken back to simpler times. The sight of the original 1840 furniture summons images of a family sitting together on a Sunday morning, reading or perhaps singing around the piano. The rest of the farmhouse is bedrooms and a place for the family to eat. The kitchen was in a separate building nearby- apparently they were worried about a fire.
         The last thing we did was visit the gift shop. They have neat arts and crafts from the period and made by hand as well as books about Gainesville  Florida and Dudley Farm in the 1800-1900’s. Sitting outside was an elderly gentleman, John and him started talking and all of the sudden he started reminiscing about traveling the United States. He told us a story about his motor home breaking down in New Jersey-  a state trooper stopped to help, and ended up on his hands and knees underneath the vehicle's undercarriage with a flashlight. The gentleman remarked on the way we never hear the good stories, and then he said something I will remember for the rest of my life... He opened his mouth and in that slow southern drawl of his he said “You know, you have friends all over that you just haven’t met yet.”  Well, to my friends out there: I can’t wait to meet you!  

At the entrance
Cost-
Entrance Fee: 5 dollars
(Optional) Cash for the giftshop

         All in all it was a great day out! Normally the farm is only five dollars a car, a steal when you consider the quality time it gives you with the family. The staff was extremely friendly and helpful! Wandering through Dudley Farm is like stepping though a door into the past, it was a great place to stay in touch with my southern heritage, and I would recommend it to anyone visiting North Central Florida. I left the farm with an almost nostalgic longing to go back to simpler times- and while Antebellum south had quite a few flaws (lack of hospitals, civil rights, and universal suffrage) that world is one I would like to visit again one day. 

In a few weeks John and I will start our rambling journey, but until after Thanksgiving (which we want to be home for) we are going to “warm-up” with day trips to local places, like Dudley Farm! Thank you all for your well wishes and prayers. I can’t wait for the real trip to begin!

Thursday, November 10, 2011

How it all began..

There are many secrets people keep in life- their age, their beliefs, their truest loves, their innermost thoughts- but not me. I will be like an open book, if only to you, if only to my readers. I was born on a chilly December night in 1991, I am 20 now and still love those types of nights. When a chill permeates the normally warm Florida air. I was raised Christian and baptized when I was still a child, my mom raised me to walk the narrow path and to see God in all things good.
I am one of the few lucky people who find their true love in youth, and even luckier to have been allowed to keep him. My Husband, John, and I married right out of high-school, we were (and still are) young but love keeps us together through all the struggles we have gone through. Our biggest struggle came in the form of great tragedy.
John’s brother, David, was driving home from his best-friends wedding when a drunk driver sped through a red light. It was midnight when we got the call. We waited at the hospital all night, but he didn’t make it through. Last June David left his children without a parent, their mother had died a year before after a battle with cancer. We were the little one’s godparents.
When we first took them in the twins were quiet, and introverted. I suppose it comes from losing two parents right in a row. At three it was hard for them to understand that their father wasn’t coming back. Hunter and Amy both have dark straight hair and solemn brown eyes. I am afraid they have seen far too much sadness in their lives, but they are sweet. Hunter loves hockey, just like his uncle, and Amy is an artist at heart.
It was a hard adjustment to make, going from being young, in love, and free to do whatever we please to being parents but John and I are starting to get the hang of it.. I think.  
I know what might be on your mind right about now- you know about my family and about my life but what is my name? Why, my name is Ida May. Ida May Clarkson.
I was named after my grandmother, an inspiring women and my hero. She was a modern women, before being a modern women was in style. Spirited and always impassioned for a cause. She went all over the country, to countless cities and towns, spreading her ideas but moreover she spread her passion for life. Everywhere she went she was greeted with welcoming smiles. She was on the road for more then a year straight, and she met my wonderful grandfather on her journey. Travel was her entire life. Ever since I was a child I aspired to be like her- to fight for a cause, and to explore the world.
John and I were planning on running away, going on the adventure I had planned for my entire life, when David passed away. Amy and Hunter are a blessing, but at first I feared they had stopped my dreams.
One night I gathered all my maps, all my hopes, into my arms and tossed them into the garbage. That is where John found them. He picked them back up, dusted them off, and promised me that we would make our journey.
Soon we will load the twins into our mini-van and drive, we will follow the road map I drew up when we were 16 and 17, and we will go across the country- visiting all the locations my grandmother did, and perhaps even more.
Hard times and good times are in store for us and I hope that you will follow us on this journey. Learn about new places, read along with our adventure, and help us keep going